What is helicopter parenting? It is defined as a parent who is extremely involved with their child's life and tries to control it too much, especially their child's education. The signs to look for about helicopter parenting typically revolve around obsessing over their children’s activities and well-being. Helicopter parents always want to be around their children, and they keep always monitoring their children whether in-person or electronically.  It’s important to be aware if you’re becoming a helicopter parent so that you can let your child grow and do things on their own.